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    Curated Reading

    The Bookshelf

    Books I return to and recommend often. Each one has something true to say about what it means to be human.

    01

    Anxiety

    Women Who Think Too Much
    Women Who Think Too Much

    Susan Nolen-Hoeksema

    "A sharp, compassionate look at the trap of rumination — why we get stuck in our own heads, and how to find a way out."

    Unwinding Anxiety
    Unwinding Anxiety

    Judson Brewer

    "Explores the habit loops that keep anxiety alive — and offers a way of relating to anxious feelings that actually works."

    First, We Make the Beast Beautiful
    First, We Make the Beast Beautiful

    Sarah Wilson

    "A raw, unconventional memoir about living with anxiety — not as something to be fixed, but as something to be understood."

    02

    Attachment

    A General Theory of Love
    A General Theory of Love

    Thomas Lewis, Fari Amini & Richard Lannon

    "Three psychiatrists writing about how love literally shapes the brain. Poetic and scientific at once — one of the most beautiful books about human connection ever written."

    Becoming Attached
    Becoming Attached

    Robert Karen

    "The untold story of attachment theory — how it was discovered, fought over, and ultimately changed everything we know about early relationships."

    Hold Me Tight
    Hold Me Tight

    Sue Johnson

    "The clearest guide to understanding attachment in adult relationships — what we need from each other, and why it's so hard to ask for it."

    03

    Depression

    The Noonday Demon
    The Noonday Demon

    Andrew Solomon

    "The most comprehensive and compassionate exploration of depression ever written — personal, political, historical, and deeply humane."

    Darkness Visible
    Darkness Visible

    William Styron

    "Short and devastating — a novelist's attempt to find language for an experience that resists it. Considered a classic for good reason."

    Lost Connections
    Lost Connections

    Johann Hari

    "A provocative argument that depression is rooted in disconnection — from meaning, from other people, from ourselves. Worth reading and worth arguing with."

    04

    Grief & Loss

    The Light of the World
    The Light of the World

    Elizabeth Alexander

    "A poet's memoir about the sudden loss of her husband — devastatingly beautiful and about how we hold those we have lost."

    When Breath Becomes Air
    When Breath Becomes Air

    Paul Kalanithi

    "A neurosurgeon facing terminal illness writes about meaning, mortality, and what makes a life worth living. Impossible to read without being changed."

    The Wild Edge of Sorrow
    The Wild Edge of Sorrow

    Francis Weller

    "A psychotherapist writing about grief as a sacred, communal experience — not a problem to be solved but a territory to be entered with care."

    05

    Mood Disorders

    An Unquiet Mind
    An Unquiet Mind

    Kay Redfield Jamison

    "A psychiatrist's memoir of living with bipolar disorder — elegant, honest, and written with a rare combination of clinical precision and raw vulnerability."

    The Bell Jar
    The Bell Jar

    Sylvia Plath

    "A literary classic that captures the inner experience of breakdown more truthfully than most clinical texts. Still startling, still necessary."

    Electroboy
    Electroboy

    Andy Behrman

    "A raw, chaotic memoir of bipolar disorder — very different in tone from Jamison but equally honest about what it feels like from the inside."

    06

    Relational

    Quiet
    Quiet

    Susan Cain

    "A landmark exploration of introversion and how it shapes the way we relate, communicate, and need connection — deeply validating for anyone who has felt misunderstood."

    The Drama of the Gifted Child
    The Drama of the Gifted Child

    Alice Miller

    "Short, devastating, essential. About how we lose ourselves early in life to meet the needs of others — and what it takes to find our way back."

    Maybe You Should Talk to Someone
    Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

    Lori Gottlieb

    "A therapist's own experience in therapy — warm, funny, and deeply honest about what it means to be seen by another person."

    07

    Trauma

    The Deepest Well
    The Deepest Well

    Nadine Burke Harris

    "A pediatrician's groundbreaking work on adverse childhood experiences and how early adversity shapes the body and mind across a lifetime."

    What My Mother and I Don't Talk About
    What My Mother and I Don't Talk About

    Michele Filgate, ed.

    "A stunning essay collection about family silence, inherited pain, and the stories we carry without knowing it."

    Hunger
    Hunger

    Roxane Gay

    "A memoir about trauma living in the body — unflinching, tender, and true in a way that few books about difficult experience manage to be."

    When the Body Says No
    When the Body Says No

    Gabor Maté

    "A profound exploration of the connection between stress, suppressed emotion, and physical illness — and what the body carries when the mind cannot."